Love Hurts

Isn't it amazing how you can wear a big smile on your face when just a while ago you broke out a storm of tears, and everything is fine. I call that "adaptation". Sad Truth is, the person you love the most will hurt you the most. Ignorance indeed, we ourselves believe - nope, that wont happen to me. blasphemy.

Marriage, when you're in one, are stuck with the legendary paradox of "Happily Ever After". While all these while, you didn't actually married your Prince Charming after all. How LOVE perpetuate in its strange odd way. I DO, nowadays is simply a confirmation of two hearts become one and the part where the priest says things about to hold and to love is only a procedure to complete.Then,Till death do us part is just a lame line and finally it's not you, it's me.

Yet, Bravo! to those of us who lived to be loved and to loved. You guys are one true significant species of homo sapiens!

But let's not deny that we can't always have the best marriage. Even Fiona and Shrek had their moments. Lurking around like a parasite, Arguments is always waiting for its chances. It always gets what it wants.
And we always manage to hide it behind closed doors. So, we started to question God, (and its not the first time!) regrets? feeling useless? anger? lonely? Yerp. done that been there and I'm so positively sure I'm not alone.

In my short life, Ive learned that in a perfect marriage, tolerance is best preserved. Then again, its easy said than done.doh! You might as well do this :

Loose your mind (now or never), no more Mrs.nice guy, scream your head off, cry till you snot drool and just burst out what you want to proclaim and make sure you're on the right side of the argument. Of course the consequences differ from every marriage, but that super feedback from your other half might not be that super of what you felt afterwards. Good. Real Good.

Relax... maybe tonight or perhaps the fortnight afterwards, you'll both kiss and make up anyway. or you might experience the greatest intimate relationship ever. Love hurts but love also heals.

So,our partner might be the pain in the ass (totally), but we love them anyway!  next round of fight, lets just suck it up. real hard. We are only human, we are not perfect and there is no such thing at a perfect marriage. but we can make life beautiful if we choose to.

Then I choose life and I'm going to paint it beautiful....

NOTE : Please remember to be safe, even in your own home. a lame argument is a common fights between partners, but ABUSE is differ. Emotionally & physically is not accepted. If you are in this situation, you're in danger, please get help before it's too late.

**Cheating Partners deserve a super slap on the face (maybe a couple of times) and thrown to hell.